Do autoupdate only when "sync" is on
Do autoupdate and autodownload only when phone system setting "sync" (aka "backround data" or "data sync" - not "mobile data") is on.
By default I have sync turned off - it prevents battery drains from some apps that try do do some background syncing even when there is no data connection and it saves bandwidth if I have to use a poor data connection for some simple explicit task (e.g. find a public transport). (I use profiles for easy tunring data and sync on and off - feature of Cyanogenmod, but there are apps in the market with a similar functionality)
I have autoupdate and autodownload set in PodcastAddict and it works pretty well. But if I have to use e.g. a poor wifi connection, PA starts to sync even though there is no chance to download all the new content and it uses bandwidth that I need for something else.
There are workarounds like "wifi filter", but using "sync" flag would be much easier and probably a more systemic approach.

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Eric Phelps commented
Not only to control network usage, but would like to stop "chatty" apps from using network when I'm using a VPN. Every extra app is one more fingerprint point to de-anonymize me. Following the global "sync" setting is the easiest way since other people may feel the exact opposite of how I feel about VPN.